"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some interesting things about interest level...

ThunderMaverick

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Our SSS (SoSuaveSista) Icky asked me to follow up this thread...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=142421


If you read it you'll see how I talk about having a mutually intense attraction to a girl and vice versa, yadda yadda. I pretty much brag how great the chemistry was and say the outcome between me and this girl looks pretty promising. Icky then ask "So how'd the date go?!" and to be honest I was kind of embarrassed. I called her friday to confirm the date for sunday and she didn't call back.

I thought maybe because the vibe was going so well I didn't want to call her and jinx it. I called monday and tuesday and it seemed we really got along. So I waited until friday to call. As I said my gut didn't feel right because maybe she lost interest. All of that talk about me reading the attraction level would have been thrown out the window. Good GOD I WOULD BE SEEN AS A MAN WHO DIDN'T KNOW WHAT HE WAS DOING!

I would have been ridiculed, pointed and laughed at and called out on my BS like Potato! I didn't want to be A POTATO!! (no offense, Potata')

So I decide to give her a call like, 5 minutes ago. She picks up and tells me she's been sick for the past couple of days. Gentlemen, you don't have to tell me. I know. (reads a line from the DJ text book while the class reads along.) "We ALWAYS take the "I'm sick" stories with a grain of salt":rolleyes:

Very good!

She's explicit in her story telling of how she's been sick. She says she's had headaches and she's been throwing up whenever she eats. Mm hm..

I just ask: "You think you'll be sick tomorrow"?

She says "I can't tell, but it's not going to stop me from meeting up with you"

"7 good?"

"7 is great, I'm with my cousins right now (she was at the mall, YES I could hear the mall music and her family in the background. lulz) so I'll call you back in 2 hours."

And that was that.


A girl who's supposedly sick STILL wants to meet up. THAT'S HIGH INTEREST, GUYS! A girl who's willing to still have a date even though she's throwing up all over the place. I don't mind. People get sick. Also she doesn't want to miss this opportunity. She mostly has school during the week and she's only free on the weekends. However I work on the weekends except for Sunday.


So there you have it. If she's sick, make sure she gives you a follow up date, as in "I'm sick, but let's meet up on so and so day.." Yes yes, if she doesn't follow up, she's not interested.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Technical1

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So your instincts were correct, the IL was high!!

On a separate question, does anyone know if getting head from a girl with sore throat feels any different? Does the mucus buildup make it more or less pleasant?
 
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