"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm meeting up with this girl in an hour. We met the other night, and today we're going out to lunch. The plan was mini golf, go karts, etc because it's all at the same place right around the corner from my house. But it's raining. We've only got a few hours because she's got work at 4 or 5, I forget.

So what the hell is there to do after lunch? Usually all my dates are at night for the more obvious reasons. Although she did mention numerous times that whatever we do be near my house. "Want me to meet you at your house, or somewhere near it if I can't find it", "are we going to eat near you or me", and we both agreed that todays weather sucks. Third times the charm as she says we're better off finding something to do near me, because she kinda lives out in the sticks.

If I didn't know any better she wants the ****. :whistle:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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grab a 6 pack, and hit some golf balls with her... go have fun in the rain, will make a perfect excuse for bringing her home and keeping her warm..let her jump in some rain puddles
 
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Invite her over to your house for a movie or something if its raining. If she wants to hang out near your place then theres a good chance she wants to come to YOUR place but doesn't want to suggest it. And you know you can still have sex if its light outside.....LOL.....
 
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No chemistry. Oh well time to move on.
 
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We went out to lunch and it felt like I was gaming my sister. I mean I wasn't checking my watch or anything, but if they expect me to stick around I need a reason or 2.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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