"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eccentric

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I'm meeting up with this girl in an hour. We met the other night, and today we're going out to lunch. The plan was mini golf, go karts, etc because it's all at the same place right around the corner from my house. But it's raining. We've only got a few hours because she's got work at 4 or 5, I forget.

So what the hell is there to do after lunch? Usually all my dates are at night for the more obvious reasons. Although she did mention numerous times that whatever we do be near my house. "Want me to meet you at your house, or somewhere near it if I can't find it", "are we going to eat near you or me", and we both agreed that todays weather sucks. Third times the charm as she says we're better off finding something to do near me, because she kinda lives out in the sticks.

If I didn't know any better she wants the ****. :whistle:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blackbelt2k

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grab a 6 pack, and hit some golf balls with her... go have fun in the rain, will make a perfect excuse for bringing her home and keeping her warm..let her jump in some rain puddles
 

gray_fox_9

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Invite her over to your house for a movie or something if its raining. If she wants to hang out near your place then theres a good chance she wants to come to YOUR place but doesn't want to suggest it. And you know you can still have sex if its light outside.....LOL.....
 

Eccentric

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No chemistry. Oh well time to move on.
 

Eccentric

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We went out to lunch and it felt like I was gaming my sister. I mean I wasn't checking my watch or anything, but if they expect me to stick around I need a reason or 2.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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