"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Maybnoob

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I ahave a question to those djs. Im still a bit of a afc but im getting there.
I have a question concerning eye contact. The thing is i usually hold EC With a girl then either she looks away or i do (i know i shouldnnt look away). But i have found that some girls dont look away after about a second like most girls do (maybe becasue their more confortable), and this lasts more than a second or so. Well i was wondering should i hold on and just wait for her to look away even though the EC Has lasted for longer than usual.
Or should i look away as not to look away first.
Now when i say longer than usual i mean like for more than 2 seconds. Have you guys came acroos girls that hold EC for longer and has forced you to look away first?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Morphiex

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if you get a a loong ec then just smile at her ..... if she smiles back then go and play your game.....

simple as that.....
 

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ok about eye contact, if you must look away, you cannot look down or bottom corners. That is a sign of submission, avoid it. Instead, you look up, or upper corner.

If she's holding long eye contact and not looking away, its a great opportunity to open and start talking with her or just bust on her.
 

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Originally posted by Clayton
ok about eye contact, if you must look away, you cannot look down or bottom corners. That is a sign of submission, avoid it. Instead, you look up, or upper corner.

If she's holding long eye contact and not looking away, its a great opportunity to open and start talking with her or just bust on her.
Cool. Its just that i find it weird whn i come across those girls who would hold EC For long periods. I just feel that if continue EC when its beong held for long periods They might find me intimidating, but i guess that wont happen if i smile hey :)
 
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