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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Maybnoob

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I ahave a question to those djs. Im still a bit of a afc but im getting there.
I have a question concerning eye contact. The thing is i usually hold EC With a girl then either she looks away or i do (i know i shouldnnt look away). But i have found that some girls dont look away after about a second like most girls do (maybe becasue their more confortable), and this lasts more than a second or so. Well i was wondering should i hold on and just wait for her to look away even though the EC Has lasted for longer than usual.
Or should i look away as not to look away first.
Now when i say longer than usual i mean like for more than 2 seconds. Have you guys came acroos girls that hold EC for longer and has forced you to look away first?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Morphiex

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if you get a a loong ec then just smile at her ..... if she smiles back then go and play your game.....

simple as that.....
 

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ok about eye contact, if you must look away, you cannot look down or bottom corners. That is a sign of submission, avoid it. Instead, you look up, or upper corner.

If she's holding long eye contact and not looking away, its a great opportunity to open and start talking with her or just bust on her.
 

Maybnoob

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Originally posted by Clayton
ok about eye contact, if you must look away, you cannot look down or bottom corners. That is a sign of submission, avoid it. Instead, you look up, or upper corner.

If she's holding long eye contact and not looking away, its a great opportunity to open and start talking with her or just bust on her.
Cool. Its just that i find it weird whn i come across those girls who would hold EC For long periods. I just feel that if continue EC when its beong held for long periods They might find me intimidating, but i guess that wont happen if i smile hey :)
 
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