So the other day while i was a class a beautiful classmate sat next to me and didn't show me any attention. After i started conversation with her, I found out she had a job that required to network (promoter). I had her laughing and she ended up giving me her number. I played it pretty cool IMO and after about 1.5 hours in the class I left. She repeated couple times to text her. Now my question is, she she just trying to network with me for her work? And also should I just skip the text and shoot her a call sometime this week and ask her for a casual dinner? Any help would be appreciated.:rockon:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Some help would be greatly appreciated!
- Thread starter sknudheat
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Just call her and talk to her a few minutes and then ask her out for coffee or something similar.
That's the best way to measure whether she's interested or not.
If she says "I'm busy"... "Maybe"...then she's not interested, unless she counter-offers.
If she doesn't pick up the call, leave a voice mail.
If she calls back, go to the beginning of this post and do what I said.
If she doesn't call back, she's most likely not interested.
There... simple.
That's the best way to measure whether she's interested or not.
If she says "I'm busy"... "Maybe"...then she's not interested, unless she counter-offers.
If she doesn't pick up the call, leave a voice mail.
If she calls back, go to the beginning of this post and do what I said.
If she doesn't call back, she's most likely not interested.
There... simple.
^^ thank you. Now would a casual dinner be too much? We were both talking about a crepe place in a nearby city that we both love. And what should I do after the dinner? Call it a day and end the night with her, try going to a bar? Or what? Thanks for Anyones advice/comments