So the other day while i was a class a beautiful classmate sat next to me and didn't show me any attention. After i started conversation with her, I found out she had a job that required to network (promoter). I had her laughing and she ended up giving me her number. I played it pretty cool IMO and after about 1.5 hours in the class I left. She repeated couple times to text her. Now my question is, she she just trying to network with me for her work? And also should I just skip the text and shoot her a call sometime this week and ask her for a casual dinner? Any help would be appreciated.:rockon:
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Some help would be greatly appreciated!
- Thread starter sknudheat
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Just call her and talk to her a few minutes and then ask her out for coffee or something similar.
That's the best way to measure whether she's interested or not.
If she says "I'm busy"... "Maybe"...then she's not interested, unless she counter-offers.
If she doesn't pick up the call, leave a voice mail.
If she calls back, go to the beginning of this post and do what I said.
If she doesn't call back, she's most likely not interested.
There... simple.
That's the best way to measure whether she's interested or not.
If she says "I'm busy"... "Maybe"...then she's not interested, unless she counter-offers.
If she doesn't pick up the call, leave a voice mail.
If she calls back, go to the beginning of this post and do what I said.
If she doesn't call back, she's most likely not interested.
There... simple.
^^ thank you. Now would a casual dinner be too much? We were both talking about a crepe place in a nearby city that we both love. And what should I do after the dinner? Call it a day and end the night with her, try going to a bar? Or what? Thanks for Anyones advice/comments