So the other day while i was a class a beautiful classmate sat next to me and didn't show me any attention. After i started conversation with her, I found out she had a job that required to network (promoter). I had her laughing and she ended up giving me her number. I played it pretty cool IMO and after about 1.5 hours in the class I left. She repeated couple times to text her. Now my question is, she she just trying to network with me for her work? And also should I just skip the text and shoot her a call sometime this week and ask her for a casual dinner? Any help would be appreciated.:rockon:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Some help would be greatly appreciated!
- Thread starter sknudheat
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Just call her and talk to her a few minutes and then ask her out for coffee or something similar.
That's the best way to measure whether she's interested or not.
If she says "I'm busy"... "Maybe"...then she's not interested, unless she counter-offers.
If she doesn't pick up the call, leave a voice mail.
If she calls back, go to the beginning of this post and do what I said.
If she doesn't call back, she's most likely not interested.
There... simple.
That's the best way to measure whether she's interested or not.
If she says "I'm busy"... "Maybe"...then she's not interested, unless she counter-offers.
If she doesn't pick up the call, leave a voice mail.
If she calls back, go to the beginning of this post and do what I said.
If she doesn't call back, she's most likely not interested.
There... simple.
^^ thank you. Now would a casual dinner be too much? We were both talking about a crepe place in a nearby city that we both love. And what should I do after the dinner? Call it a day and end the night with her, try going to a bar? Or what? Thanks for Anyones advice/comments