"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some guys here need banning.

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Some guys here need banning. But one particular person that I'm surprised is still around is Bvbidd. If you get a decent approach, he'll tell you you're wrong because of "words, words, words". You get in a GOOD approach where he knows the girls are interested, he do sh1t but give negative criticism and pull stuff out of his ass. For instance, a recent topic where the girls were clearly interested, "Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it" first off, who's we? The Jockies on the board who don't know what they're talking? Also, somehow "they" already gave me feedback on a perfectly new approach. Then he moves on to say "Stalker logic". Second of all, the guy just comes to the board acting like he knows everything about everybody and when he doesn't he pulls it straight out of his ass. Plus I just think it's a little suspicious, that dudes VERY FIRST post is a piece of advice, yet he's got no FR's and no proof that all that advice he's given works. He tries to defend this with "You're a loser... We all could post stupid FRs every day because we all talk to people every day, but we don't consider simple conversations as that important." but the truth is in the several monthes he's been here he has NEVER posted a SINGLE FR. Yes, over 1,000 post and not a single FR. And I look at his some of the advice he's given to other people and it looks like they often disagree with him too. So mods, atleast consider banning this guy, it really would make the forum a lot better if idiots like this weren't giving bad and untested advice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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superchill89 said:
actually the quote in the bold was grand wizzard alamar... and yes, GWA does need to be banned
Hmm yeah, just noticed that. Still you get the whole point. And yes, I can name a few other guys who do the same thing. ChrizZ, Miba, GWA, Real, War of Betaism, all of those guys do the same thing as Bvibidd or whatever his name is. They act better than everyone else on the board, give advice, but have NO proof of success and don't have the attitude of guys who get consitantly laid. Even if they have gotten laid a few times, they're not getting laid consistantly and are in no position to act like they do.
 

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Tell me about it and the worst things is is that these guys get away with it, while the innocent dudes get the consequences. Banning these dudes would do nothing but make the forum a BETTER place and it would benefit several people on the board, because they wouldn't have to listen and take faulty, untested advice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ElStud said:
Banning these dudes would do nothing but make the forum a BETTER place and it would benefit several people on the board
Yes, and exterminating all people with disabilities would make this world a better place too... But we all know how that turns out, don't we?






Use your Ignore button.
 

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ElStud your a retard. Normal people don't post FRs, do you realize how creepy it is to record your conversations through the day and post it on a message board?
 

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ElStud your a retard. Normal people don't post FRs, do you realize how creepy it is to record your conversations through the day and post it on a message board?
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See what I mean about this guy. "Normal people don't posts convos", yeah and normal people don't get laid either buddy. Also you realize you just called anyone and everyone who's ever posted an FR retarded, which means you're calling most guys with success retarded.
 

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....lets be honest for a second..what kind of lose..errr I mean guy posts a field report ?? whats the purpose ?? how insecure/pathetic does someone have to be to post a field report to get approval or advice from anonymous forum users.

wait, even worse...what dude actually cares enough to READ A FIELD REPORT and daydream about what the writer could have done..
i mean, seriously.
 

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if you are gonna post a field report, be able to take advice and critisim, because unless you are posting about getting a # or getting laid, then you clearly have done something wrong and you WILL get feedback along the lines of "look u did this wrong, try this instead"

how could YOU elstud possible think you are doing well if you keep getting blown out and rejected badly by every single girl you approach
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ElStud said:
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See what I mean about this guy. "Normal people don't posts convos", yeah and normal people don't get laid either buddy. Also you realize you just called anyone and everyone who's ever posted an FR retarded, which means you're calling most guys with success retarded.
:crackup: Jesus, you kill me, you really do.
 

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The most important and underlying question which still begs to be answered is:

"What the fvck do you care about other guys' status on an internet forum?"

If you have time to dwell on who here does this and does that it screams that you're not paying enough attention to yourself and your self development.

Complaining about what people do is a very soap opera-ish chick trait and will be regarded as such.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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