Some guys here need banning. But one particular person that I'm surprised is still around is Bvbidd. If you get a decent approach, he'll tell you you're wrong because of "words, words, words". You get in a GOOD approach where he knows the girls are interested, he do sh1t but give negative criticism and pull stuff out of his ass. For instance, a recent topic where the girls were clearly interested, "Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it" first off, who's we? The Jockies on the board who don't know what they're talking? Also, somehow "they" already gave me feedback on a perfectly new approach. Then he moves on to say "Stalker logic". Second of all, the guy just comes to the board acting like he knows everything about everybody and when he doesn't he pulls it straight out of his ass. Plus I just think it's a little suspicious, that dudes VERY FIRST post is a piece of advice, yet he's got no FR's and no proof that all that advice he's given works. He tries to defend this with "You're a loser... We all could post stupid FRs every day because we all talk to people every day, but we don't consider simple conversations as that important." but the truth is in the several monthes he's been here he has NEVER posted a SINGLE FR. Yes, over 1,000 post and not a single FR. And I look at his some of the advice he's given to other people and it looks like they often disagree with him too. So mods, atleast consider banning this guy, it really would make the forum a lot better if idiots like this weren't giving bad and untested advice.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Some guys here need banning.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Hmm yeah, just noticed that. Still you get the whole point. And yes, I can name a few other guys who do the same thing. ChrizZ, Miba, GWA, Real, War of Betaism, all of those guys do the same thing as Bvibidd or whatever his name is. They act better than everyone else on the board, give advice, but have NO proof of success and don't have the attitude of guys who get consitantly laid. Even if they have gotten laid a few times, they're not getting laid consistantly and are in no position to act like they do.superchill89 said:
Tell me about it and the worst things is is that these guys get away with it, while the innocent dudes get the consequences. Banning these dudes would do nothing but make the forum a BETTER place and it would benefit several people on the board, because they wouldn't have to listen and take faulty, untested advice.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Yes, and exterminating all people with disabilities would make this world a better place too... But we all know how that turns out, don't we?ElStud said:
Use your Ignore button.
...Bvbidd said:
See what I mean about this guy. "Normal people don't posts convos", yeah and normal people don't get laid either buddy. Also you realize you just called anyone and everyone who's ever posted an FR retarded, which means you're calling most guys with success retarded.
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....lets be honest for a second..what kind of lose..errr I mean guy posts a field report ?? whats the purpose ?? how insecure/pathetic does someone have to be to post a field report to get approval or advice from anonymous forum users.
wait, even worse...what dude actually cares enough to READ A FIELD REPORT and daydream about what the writer could have done..
i mean, seriously.
wait, even worse...what dude actually cares enough to READ A FIELD REPORT and daydream about what the writer could have done..
i mean, seriously.
if you are gonna post a field report, be able to take advice and critisim, because unless you are posting about getting a # or getting laid, then you clearly have done something wrong and you WILL get feedback along the lines of "look u did this wrong, try this instead"
how could YOU elstud possible think you are doing well if you keep getting blown out and rejected badly by every single girl you approach
how could YOU elstud possible think you are doing well if you keep getting blown out and rejected badly by every single girl you approach
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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:crackup: Jesus, you kill me, you really do.ElStud said:
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The most important and underlying question which still begs to be answered is:
"What the fvck do you care about other guys' status on an internet forum?"
If you have time to dwell on who here does this and does that it screams that you're not paying enough attention to yourself and your self development.
Complaining about what people do is a very soap opera-ish chick trait and will be regarded as such.
"What the fvck do you care about other guys' status on an internet forum?"
If you have time to dwell on who here does this and does that it screams that you're not paying enough attention to yourself and your self development.
Complaining about what people do is a very soap opera-ish chick trait and will be regarded as such.
Charm&Style
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does everyones left testicle hang lower than their right
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Turn around, you're facing the wrong way.panosha said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I hear ElStud loves anal.
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As pitcher or catcher?nakedtwister said:
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best thread hijack ever!
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Pitcher, catcher, and umpire.KarmaSutra said:
I also hear he was a backup dancer in Priscilla Queen of the Desert.
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I think I should be banned! I've had a poor attitude lately.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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