"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some guy might have grabbed my ass tonight..

Reyaj

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Yeah I am this new year's house party, it's one of my girl's friends houses. She invited a whole bunch of people that neither of us know.. everyone is nice except for this one kid who is just a doosh bag.. he talks **** to people he doesn't even know and tries to act like a bad azz..

Anyway I'm not a fan of trouble so I basically stay away from him.. But I was talking to my girl when suddenly I feel my ass squeezed close to my nuts... I didn't see who did it but I turned my head and saw this guy walking past.. I had no idea what I was supposed to do here...? I didn't want to cause a scene so I decided ignored it... But should I have gone up to him and just punched him? That's assault right.. not only could I get arrested but most of his friends are here so I would have been out numbered..

Should I have gone up to him and say yo did you grab my ass??? He might have done it in a playful way.. but this whole thing is just weird..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Were you on Impractical Jokers?
 

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I wonder if this dude is gay or he just does weird **** like that when he is drunk? I don't know him so it's not like we are friends.

It's also possible one of the girls near me did it as I didn't really see it..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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