"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some guy might have grabbed my ass tonight..

Reyaj

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Yeah I am this new year's house party, it's one of my girl's friends houses. She invited a whole bunch of people that neither of us know.. everyone is nice except for this one kid who is just a doosh bag.. he talks **** to people he doesn't even know and tries to act like a bad azz..

Anyway I'm not a fan of trouble so I basically stay away from him.. But I was talking to my girl when suddenly I feel my ass squeezed close to my nuts... I didn't see who did it but I turned my head and saw this guy walking past.. I had no idea what I was supposed to do here...? I didn't want to cause a scene so I decided ignored it... But should I have gone up to him and just punched him? That's assault right.. not only could I get arrested but most of his friends are here so I would have been out numbered..

Should I have gone up to him and say yo did you grab my ass??? He might have done it in a playful way.. but this whole thing is just weird..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Were you on Impractical Jokers?
 

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I wonder if this dude is gay or he just does weird **** like that when he is drunk? I don't know him so it's not like we are friends.

It's also possible one of the girls near me did it as I didn't really see it..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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