"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some guy might have grabbed my ass tonight..

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Yeah I am this new year's house party, it's one of my girl's friends houses. She invited a whole bunch of people that neither of us know.. everyone is nice except for this one kid who is just a doosh bag.. he talks **** to people he doesn't even know and tries to act like a bad azz..

Anyway I'm not a fan of trouble so I basically stay away from him.. But I was talking to my girl when suddenly I feel my ass squeezed close to my nuts... I didn't see who did it but I turned my head and saw this guy walking past.. I had no idea what I was supposed to do here...? I didn't want to cause a scene so I decided ignored it... But should I have gone up to him and just punched him? That's assault right.. not only could I get arrested but most of his friends are here so I would have been out numbered..

Should I have gone up to him and say yo did you grab my ass??? He might have done it in a playful way.. but this whole thing is just weird..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Were you on Impractical Jokers?
 
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I wonder if this dude is gay or he just does weird **** like that when he is drunk? I don't know him so it's not like we are friends.

It's also possible one of the girls near me did it as I didn't really see it..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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