"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some girl told me "I love you" during sex

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and then quickly followed it up with, "Ehemmm, I love your thick **** thrusting in me." I was just about to climax as she said this, so I ignored it. I am legitimately terrified. I accidentally gave her a yeast infection when the condom broke the first time we ****ed and she texted me about that today. I've probably had sex with her 5-6 times max and just started doing it last week. The reason this is even happening is because I am way, way better looking than her.

I leave for another state to begin grad school in 4 weeks and she moves back to her parents' house for the summer in 2 weeks. I have a date on Wednesday with another girl. I've gotta **** at least one more hot chick (obviously, the current girl I'm banging is gross) before I leave this college town and move to my new city.

Anyways, this **** is totally terrifying. I do not want some girl I am not interested in for anything besides sex and friendship (she's a great person that I thoroughly enjoy writing music with) falling in love with me. I rarely have sex with unattractive girls without a quick exit plan (i.e. the girl lives in a totally different city).

What do I say? Even though she has such a limited amount of time with me, she's acting fucking ridiculous by saying such things.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bahahaha.

Freakin women think they're clever. She intentionally dropped that in there, so that if you replied "i love you too", then she gets her wish. And if you rejected her, then she could just blame it on being caught up in the passion of sex. Win - win.

You know what'll throw a monkey wrench in her plans? Ignoring it altogether.
 
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I told her friends I was bisexual in an attempt to get closer to them in order to bang one of them. She can hold this over me, lol. I don't really care, though.

Also, her roommate was like "you're getting with him?? He's pretty!" when she found out I was banging her. Totally want to bang that roommate, haha. I already have her number from way before I met this girl.
 
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"you don't luv me. You just luv my doggie style."
 
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blueline said:
I told her friends I was bisexual in an attempt to get closer to them.
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Ummm.... assuming you are male, how does your being bisexual help you get with her girlfriends?

I'm not sure that wins points with the ladies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigneil said:
Ummm.... assuming you are male, how does your being bisexual help you get with her girlfriends?

I'm not sure that wins points with the ladies.
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You'd be surprised, haha.
 
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^the world is a changin I guess. Do you brah. Though are you sure you arent one of those curious fellows?

Because I never heard of guys lying about being bi to chix to get them horny, the same way some straight women do it to men.

Then again maybe things are starting to equalize. Hell if I know, I mean dudes fan-service each other in certain music scenes.

*shrug*
 
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So the women are hoping to score with 2 bisexual men at the same time so they get turned on?
 
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