"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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some friendly competition

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goldenrocker91

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So heres my story...

Theres this girl i wanna make out with and i found out one of my best friends wants to too.

So were having some competition to see who can hook up with her first.

About a week ago though we were all hanging out for my birthday and i got trashed. My friends (also drunk) told her i wanted to hook up with her and i remember they pulled the chair i was in next to hers. I dont remember what happened after that cuz i was too drunk but i was told i didnt hook up with her at all.....

I think i b*tcheded out =[

She was completely sober btw

So anyways i dont know what i said to her but i hope by b*tching out i didnt ruin my chances with her.

Anyways this sucks cuz i tinhk i might have blew my chance.

She also knows i want to hook up with her but im not sure how she feels... I really dont know what to do right now.

Any help would be appreciated =]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jolly_Roger

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lol your funny you should have never gotten drunk...that kills people's chances,but anyways best bet is to treat her like the ugliest girl you have ever met,don't act rude to her just uninterested.Other than that yeah you prolly blew your chances.Dont apologize either.
 
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ConantheLibertarian

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Just play it off like it never happened, that's your best bet if you have any chance. You still might, just let some time pass and try again.
 
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goldenrocker91

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yea i only hung out with her once after that in the past month and she acted like nothing happened... i guess i didnt say anything stupid but i think ive still got a shot
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah, since you were drunk you might have a better chance if she noticed your different state of mind. idk how to explain it, but it has some good effects.

your chances were pretty much ruined though.
 
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