"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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goldenrocker91

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So heres my story...

Theres this girl i wanna make out with and i found out one of my best friends wants to too.

So were having some competition to see who can hook up with her first.

About a week ago though we were all hanging out for my birthday and i got trashed. My friends (also drunk) told her i wanted to hook up with her and i remember they pulled the chair i was in next to hers. I dont remember what happened after that cuz i was too drunk but i was told i didnt hook up with her at all.....

I think i b*tcheded out =[

She was completely sober btw

So anyways i dont know what i said to her but i hope by b*tching out i didnt ruin my chances with her.

Anyways this sucks cuz i tinhk i might have blew my chance.

She also knows i want to hook up with her but im not sure how she feels... I really dont know what to do right now.

Any help would be appreciated =]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jolly_Roger

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lol your funny you should have never gotten drunk...that kills people's chances,but anyways best bet is to treat her like the ugliest girl you have ever met,don't act rude to her just uninterested.Other than that yeah you prolly blew your chances.Dont apologize either.
 
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Just play it off like it never happened, that's your best bet if you have any chance. You still might, just let some time pass and try again.
 
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goldenrocker91

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yea i only hung out with her once after that in the past month and she acted like nothing happened... i guess i didnt say anything stupid but i think ive still got a shot
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah, since you were drunk you might have a better chance if she noticed your different state of mind. idk how to explain it, but it has some good effects.

your chances were pretty much ruined though.
 
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