"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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some friendly competition

goldenrocker91

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So heres my story...

Theres this girl i wanna make out with and i found out one of my best friends wants to too.

So were having some competition to see who can hook up with her first.

About a week ago though we were all hanging out for my birthday and i got trashed. My friends (also drunk) told her i wanted to hook up with her and i remember they pulled the chair i was in next to hers. I dont remember what happened after that cuz i was too drunk but i was told i didnt hook up with her at all.....

I think i b*tcheded out =[

She was completely sober btw

So anyways i dont know what i said to her but i hope by b*tching out i didnt ruin my chances with her.

Anyways this sucks cuz i tinhk i might have blew my chance.

She also knows i want to hook up with her but im not sure how she feels... I really dont know what to do right now.

Any help would be appreciated =]
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jolly_Roger

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lol your funny you should have never gotten drunk...that kills people's chances,but anyways best bet is to treat her like the ugliest girl you have ever met,don't act rude to her just uninterested.Other than that yeah you prolly blew your chances.Dont apologize either.
 

ConantheLibertarian

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Just play it off like it never happened, that's your best bet if you have any chance. You still might, just let some time pass and try again.
 

goldenrocker91

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yea i only hung out with her once after that in the past month and she acted like nothing happened... i guess i didnt say anything stupid but i think ive still got a shot
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah, since you were drunk you might have a better chance if she noticed your different state of mind. idk how to explain it, but it has some good effects.

your chances were pretty much ruined though.
 
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