"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some examples of you in action

SoSuaveScorp

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I constantly read tip upon tip about gaming women and picking up girls but I never see examples of these in action.
I've found that I learn from examples. So I'd really appreciate some examples of being ****y/funny.
when trying to facebook game.. what's an example of your first message that would be ****y/funny?

or when you approach on the street/bar some good ****y/funny things to say.. It really helps me wrap my mind around the mentality when examples are provided :) thanks
-kevin
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nygard

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Words will only describe 20% of the whole communication. Videos show lots of that missing pieces, but nobody is ever going to do such a thing. Even Tyler freakign Durden choked when they tried to film him picking chicks up.
 

NorwegianDJ

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90% of communication is non-verbal. That means that those 90% are your tone and body language. Body language includes kino.
In other words: What you say doesnt matter; its how you say it.

Want examples? Read FRs and journals, they are almost the only people that actually DO IT.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/162953 (and many other journals there)
My journal on the HS forum.
 
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