"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some examples of you in action

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SoSuaveScorp

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I constantly read tip upon tip about gaming women and picking up girls but I never see examples of these in action.
I've found that I learn from examples. So I'd really appreciate some examples of being ****y/funny.
when trying to facebook game.. what's an example of your first message that would be ****y/funny?

or when you approach on the street/bar some good ****y/funny things to say.. It really helps me wrap my mind around the mentality when examples are provided :) thanks
-kevin
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Words will only describe 20% of the whole communication. Videos show lots of that missing pieces, but nobody is ever going to do such a thing. Even Tyler freakign Durden choked when they tried to film him picking chicks up.
 
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90% of communication is non-verbal. That means that those 90% are your tone and body language. Body language includes kino.
In other words: What you say doesnt matter; its how you say it.

Want examples? Read FRs and journals, they are almost the only people that actually DO IT.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/162953 (and many other journals there)
My journal on the HS forum.
 
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