"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Some dinner gathering problem

MrGold

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Ex gf's gonna be there and we havnt spoken in a few weeks since a huge argument. How do i act?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is it at a house? Restaurant? Any new boyfriends or girlfriends?

How does she generally act?

If she's a firecracker I would try to avoid contact with her altogether - but if it's an obligatory event, such as a family Thanksgiving, you have to just ignore her. Think stoicism.

Obviously don't go calling her on past b.s. if there is no need to or if she's not starting anything.
 

MrGold

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At a restaurant with a bunch of 'her' friends... Hmm i think ill try the neutral 'hey how u doin?' then move away and make an earl exit. Just wanna show my face really. Thanks anyway.
 
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