Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Some Chick Last Night- advice

LegendBoy

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Alright I was went to this thing last night.. It is only for people of what nationality I am. It is like a dacning thing with new musics and some old folk.

It is where the grandmas the daughters the mums they all come.. Anyway this chick tickle my fancy.. But trust me you just don't try picking up in this joint. It is the turkish community.. lol

I felt the girl was checking me out, she submitted to eye contact like 5 times. Anyway that isn't the point I will find out either through msn.

I am kind of friends with one of her friends... So on msn what do I say to this girls friend. Something like "your friend was alright looking got her msn" or any other suggestions???

If I get the msn do I instantly ask the number of this chick?? Or yap a little.

If I don't get the number there is no such thing as IOI.:yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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resilient

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Man.. you should have gotten the #close the first time you met her. You can play c+f online, but go for the #close everytime.

Even if you don't like her, do it for practice, so you have less anxiety doing it the next time.

Make a short 5-10 min convo on the phone, get her laughing and make the date.
 

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You're screwed. Its pretty useless to ask a friend to get her contact info. Next time you see this girl you like - ask her phone number.
 

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Update

Now... and i got her msn from her friend and chatted and showed some pics of myself.

She said she remember me and thought i was good looking but left it at that for the night. She seemed to be happy i got her msn.

But my gut is teling me AW. I dunno though... I got her number chated and i asked her out but not officially and she msged me now and asked if I want to meet up with her..

I am saying no because I can't... I am going library to study ROFL. She wants me to also come out to the club with her on Friday.. I might go... But I can't dance.. I have to ****ing hammered to be able to dance lol...


I have also noticed in aUSTRALIA as I am ethnic..

Out of aussie girls my success is like 1/5
Out of ethnics 2/2

On msn she kept asking how many gfs i had... if i am ltr guy and all these wierd questions..

If I meet up who says I am in???? for a hook up...
 

resilient

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Get out there and enjoy yourself man.

Don't get hung up just on that one chick. Keep it light and fun and you won't care if she likes you back or not. Just remember to pace yourself and frame it so you're the one interviewing her to see if you want something further. You are the prize.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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