"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Some Chick Last Night- advice

LegendBoy

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Alright I was went to this thing last night.. It is only for people of what nationality I am. It is like a dacning thing with new musics and some old folk.

It is where the grandmas the daughters the mums they all come.. Anyway this chick tickle my fancy.. But trust me you just don't try picking up in this joint. It is the turkish community.. lol

I felt the girl was checking me out, she submitted to eye contact like 5 times. Anyway that isn't the point I will find out either through msn.

I am kind of friends with one of her friends... So on msn what do I say to this girls friend. Something like "your friend was alright looking got her msn" or any other suggestions???

If I get the msn do I instantly ask the number of this chick?? Or yap a little.

If I don't get the number there is no such thing as IOI.:yes:
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man.. you should have gotten the #close the first time you met her. You can play c+f online, but go for the #close everytime.

Even if you don't like her, do it for practice, so you have less anxiety doing it the next time.

Make a short 5-10 min convo on the phone, get her laughing and make the date.
 

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You're screwed. Its pretty useless to ask a friend to get her contact info. Next time you see this girl you like - ask her phone number.
 

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Update

Now... and i got her msn from her friend and chatted and showed some pics of myself.

She said she remember me and thought i was good looking but left it at that for the night. She seemed to be happy i got her msn.

But my gut is teling me AW. I dunno though... I got her number chated and i asked her out but not officially and she msged me now and asked if I want to meet up with her..

I am saying no because I can't... I am going library to study ROFL. She wants me to also come out to the club with her on Friday.. I might go... But I can't dance.. I have to ****ing hammered to be able to dance lol...


I have also noticed in aUSTRALIA as I am ethnic..

Out of aussie girls my success is like 1/5
Out of ethnics 2/2

On msn she kept asking how many gfs i had... if i am ltr guy and all these wierd questions..

If I meet up who says I am in???? for a hook up...
 

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Get out there and enjoy yourself man.

Don't get hung up just on that one chick. Keep it light and fun and you won't care if she likes you back or not. Just remember to pace yourself and frame it so you're the one interviewing her to see if you want something further. You are the prize.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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