"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some Chick Last Night- advice

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Alright I was went to this thing last night.. It is only for people of what nationality I am. It is like a dacning thing with new musics and some old folk.

It is where the grandmas the daughters the mums they all come.. Anyway this chick tickle my fancy.. But trust me you just don't try picking up in this joint. It is the turkish community.. lol

I felt the girl was checking me out, she submitted to eye contact like 5 times. Anyway that isn't the point I will find out either through msn.

I am kind of friends with one of her friends... So on msn what do I say to this girls friend. Something like "your friend was alright looking got her msn" or any other suggestions???

If I get the msn do I instantly ask the number of this chick?? Or yap a little.

If I don't get the number there is no such thing as IOI.:yes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man.. you should have gotten the #close the first time you met her. You can play c+f online, but go for the #close everytime.

Even if you don't like her, do it for practice, so you have less anxiety doing it the next time.

Make a short 5-10 min convo on the phone, get her laughing and make the date.
 
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You're screwed. Its pretty useless to ask a friend to get her contact info. Next time you see this girl you like - ask her phone number.
 
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Update

Now... and i got her msn from her friend and chatted and showed some pics of myself.

She said she remember me and thought i was good looking but left it at that for the night. She seemed to be happy i got her msn.

But my gut is teling me AW. I dunno though... I got her number chated and i asked her out but not officially and she msged me now and asked if I want to meet up with her..

I am saying no because I can't... I am going library to study ROFL. She wants me to also come out to the club with her on Friday.. I might go... But I can't dance.. I have to ****ing hammered to be able to dance lol...


I have also noticed in aUSTRALIA as I am ethnic..

Out of aussie girls my success is like 1/5
Out of ethnics 2/2

On msn she kept asking how many gfs i had... if i am ltr guy and all these wierd questions..

If I meet up who says I am in???? for a hook up...
 
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Get out there and enjoy yourself man.

Don't get hung up just on that one chick. Keep it light and fun and you won't care if she likes you back or not. Just remember to pace yourself and frame it so you're the one interviewing her to see if you want something further. You are the prize.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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