"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some behaviors that you know the b/f or g/f is just tolerating

ThisNThat

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This kind of boggles my mind (or may be it shouldn't) is the level of strange or crass behavior when it comes to someone's current partner. Sometimes they even do it in mixed company.

Like a boyfriend that burps in public after eating because he thinks its cute, or a woman being a ***** to someone and you're thinking, "And he's with HER?! I feel sorry for him."

Is there something attractive about the burping boyfriend that keeps her around? Although it's not like he's abusing or cheating on her, but its a level of crass, Trump-style behavior that keeps these women around...still.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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old_skoolr

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I fart on my gf all the time, I find that s.hit hilarious.
 

sazc

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It's just not the standards that you would expect out of your partner. we all have different standards. some people will actually tolerate a lot because they live in scarcity mentality. they fear if they give this one up, they will never find another who will 'love them.

The very extremes of this way of thinking have people staying in abusive relationships, and other people being SO picky that they exclude everybody for one reason or another.
 
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