"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some behaviors that you know the b/f or g/f is just tolerating

ThisNThat

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This kind of boggles my mind (or may be it shouldn't) is the level of strange or crass behavior when it comes to someone's current partner. Sometimes they even do it in mixed company.

Like a boyfriend that burps in public after eating because he thinks its cute, or a woman being a ***** to someone and you're thinking, "And he's with HER?! I feel sorry for him."

Is there something attractive about the burping boyfriend that keeps her around? Although it's not like he's abusing or cheating on her, but its a level of crass, Trump-style behavior that keeps these women around...still.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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old_skoolr

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I fart on my gf all the time, I find that s.hit hilarious.
 

sazc

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It's just not the standards that you would expect out of your partner. we all have different standards. some people will actually tolerate a lot because they live in scarcity mentality. they fear if they give this one up, they will never find another who will 'love them.

The very extremes of this way of thinking have people staying in abusive relationships, and other people being SO picky that they exclude everybody for one reason or another.
 
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