Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
Went sarging at the mall today, ahhh i love it. I saw some 9's, and made plenty of EC. I have a problem though( and this has happened at least 8 times in the last week), whenever im making EC, the girl is always the first to look away, but the girl kinda seems intimidated, because i never get a smile from chicks my age that make EC with me, only MILFS, Milfs have actually smiled and winked at me. wierd... I think its because they are intimidated? just the way i walk, head high, and looking kinda serious.Thats my main problem, because it feels wierd for me to smile with teeth voluntarily. Guess I should only sarge when im really happy?
Older women LOVE it when younger men give them attention and you get mad points in their book for approaching them. If a milf smiles at you, GO FOR IT.
Here are some questions though:
1.if a chick is in the women's shoe dpt. at macy's or something, do you approach?
2.if a chick is with her mom do you approach(i would if she wasnt with her mom)?
3.Do you approach a chick that is walking in the same direction as you?
4.Do you approach chicks that are with a guy, but he only seems to be friends?
1.) Yeah. It's a perfect oppurtunity for an observational comment approach.
2.) No. Girls that are in my age range have no business being with their moms in public.
3.) Yes. I've done this approach once in university. I started walking faster then her and deliberatly cut her off right in front of the classroom door, turned around and was smiling at her, and she thought I was ridiculous and was laughing and shaking her head. So the whole class we sat and were passing notes to each other, and I ended up getting her number and going out with her for about 2 months.
4.) It depends. I've done this in my university class once as well. Basically, I went to a class and saw a cute girl, but some guy was sitting right next to her. under those conditions, what do you do?
i.] Always befriend the guy first and barely pay attention to the girl (man talk). This way, he will trust you more because he wont think you're moving in on his territory, and she'll be wondering why you're not paying attention to her (this is kind of a neg for a girl, it messes with her ego). Also, by talkingto the man and ignoring her, it makes her feel like a little girl, and gives you the upper hand. Likewise, you get to find out whether they're dating, or if they're just friends/cousins/siblings/whatever.
If they were dating, I wouldn't go for it. Otherwise, I would go for it. In my situation, they were just friends.
ii.) You slowly shift attention from the guy to the girl (I did this after 3rd class I had with them).
iii.) you isolate her, and ask her out.
now of course this is very situational, but the principles remain the same. Befriend the guy first + barely pay attention to the girl, then shift attention to her, then you isolate her and go for the close.
