"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some American men are pathetic panderers

Manure Spherian

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You are correct. The question becomes " are men monogamous in nature?". I dont believe they are monogamous. They should not be "cheating". They should be allowed to have multiple wives or concubines that they are legally bounded to. This way they are actually covering a woman and taking care of her.

Ancient cultures used to provide structure to the " cheating" so everyone benefited from it.

As far as control goes, the male sex drive is too strong for most men to control fully. It should be channeled into either multiple wives for controlled prostitution.
Polygamy makes society unstable, and yes, dangerous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Scaramouche

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Tacitus claimed,that at the time the Romans arrived,Ancient Britons lived in communities of 12-20 Folk,the Women were held in common,the Children looked after by the whole community,sounds quite reasonable to me....Our own Aboriginals had a strange kinship system of partnering where different relatives could use each others Woman when their own Lady was unavailable...Elders had first crack at the Girls which sounds even more reasonable...great guys our First Nation People.
 

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I didn’t cheat throughout my 20 year marriage.
The thought of what my kids would think of me was the main reason along with my marriage vows which I took seriously.

It’s a lot harder when you aren’t married/don’t have kids and have many options, especially if you are above average in looks, status and/or wealth. The need for variety in the bedroom is in our DNA.

I think as you get much older, your testosterone levels decline and your energy levels are lower this can also be a handbrake.
 

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I didn’t cheat throughout my 20 year marriage.
The thought of what my kids would think of me was the main reason along with my marriage vows which I took seriously.

It’s a lot harder when you aren’t married/don’t have kids and have many options, especially if you are above average in looks, status and/or wealth. The need for variety in the bedroom is in our DNA.

I think as you get much older, your testosterone levels decline and your energy levels are lower this can also be a handbrake.
Yes you make good points. I am much less sexual compared to my 20s. Its def a testosterone thing. It is also harder because to resist because I do not have kids looking up to me.
 
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