"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some American men are pathetic panderers

Manure Spherian

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You are correct. The question becomes " are men monogamous in nature?". I dont believe they are monogamous. They should not be "cheating". They should be allowed to have multiple wives or concubines that they are legally bounded to. This way they are actually covering a woman and taking care of her.

Ancient cultures used to provide structure to the " cheating" so everyone benefited from it.

As far as control goes, the male sex drive is too strong for most men to control fully. It should be channeled into either multiple wives for controlled prostitution.
Polygamy makes society unstable, and yes, dangerous.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scaramouche

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Tacitus claimed,that at the time the Romans arrived,Ancient Britons lived in communities of 12-20 Folk,the Women were held in common,the Children looked after by the whole community,sounds quite reasonable to me....Our own Aboriginals had a strange kinship system of partnering where different relatives could use each others Woman when their own Lady was unavailable...Elders had first crack at the Girls which sounds even more reasonable...great guys our First Nation People.
 

DJ Novice

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I didn’t cheat throughout my 20 year marriage.
The thought of what my kids would think of me was the main reason along with my marriage vows which I took seriously.

It’s a lot harder when you aren’t married/don’t have kids and have many options, especially if you are above average in looks, status and/or wealth. The need for variety in the bedroom is in our DNA.

I think as you get much older, your testosterone levels decline and your energy levels are lower this can also be a handbrake.
 

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I didn’t cheat throughout my 20 year marriage.
The thought of what my kids would think of me was the main reason along with my marriage vows which I took seriously.

It’s a lot harder when you aren’t married/don’t have kids and have many options, especially if you are above average in looks, status and/or wealth. The need for variety in the bedroom is in our DNA.

I think as you get much older, your testosterone levels decline and your energy levels are lower this can also be a handbrake.
Yes you make good points. I am much less sexual compared to my 20s. Its def a testosterone thing. It is also harder because to resist because I do not have kids looking up to me.
 
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