Some advice

[MackToBe]

Iv'e been going to this bar quite a few times recently and seen this HOT babe working behind the bar, she probably gets hit on by a lot of guys all the time so any advice on how I can come across to her that Im not like the other average guys. Not sure how to start a good conversation with her.

 

[Evangenlion]

If she is a bartender or waitress, wait for her to come to you for an order then say "i need a v i r g i n m a r y" then wink.

you'll look like all the other guys hitting on her, but a bit more charming.

then u switch the game.

once u are given your drink from her, just say "thanks, your a darling"

turn away and don't talk to her all night.

repeat this for 3 days straight with a bit of variation.

she'll be interested in u in no time.

and note: you better be a interesting person in real life here son

 

[quest]

find a different girl.

hot bar tender is like a movie star.

OR meet her somewhere she's not a bar tender. and work it from there.

 

[DallasFan]

Lots of HB in a bar are ball buster. And most of the time and being ****y works well than just the plain small convo.

It doesn't matter how you approach her, just walk up to her, make a compliment or ask a question or say something about the place. Introduce yourself, and close with her number.

 

[h2o]

last few times I went to the same club, there's a really cute bartender that's been flirting with me.

the thing that I guess set me apart the first time I went there, and made her remember me is that I was playful with her.

I honestly don't think we'll ever hook up, it's just mindless flirting, but I probably could...but that's another story.

Anyway, first time, when I was buying a drink, and she was like "that's blah dollars." and I held out my money, and as she was about to take it from my hand, I moved it away quickly ...she fell for it, and I was like "my 5yr old cousin doesn't even fall for that stuff anymore." From that point on we just tease each other...do playful stuff like that with beautiful women and you will quickly set yourself apart from the rest.

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edit: also, though, the best way to meet a hot bartender is outside of the club/bar. you'll have better odds then. I know one that I've met outside of the bar...that if I'd met her at the bar I wouldn't have nearly been as close to.

err: just realized quest said the same thing

 

[Desdinova]

any advice on how I can come across to her that Im not like the other average guys

Tell her she has a cute moustache.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by Desdinova
Tell her she has a cute moustache.

:crackup:

 

[diablo]

There's a thread that you should have read when you got here regarding this exact same question. Try reading it now, thanks.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16628

When you finish, check out the first thread he wrote:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16517&highlight=waitress