"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Some advice

Yo_Yo

New Member
Joined
Dec 6, 2010
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
So my girlfriend texts me all the time. Not usually to say anything important, but just like, hey whats up. Hell sometimes she just says "hey."

I usually just reply, answer her questions flirt a little, but she never really says much, just a couple words.

In person its totally different.

If I ignore her, two hours later I'll get another text. I dont mind it, its just boring.

One time I told her if she didnt have anything important to say dont talk to me at all, cuz it got annoying. (yeah mean I know) she said sorry and that she would do better.

And she did.

But she's still boring at times. I try to ask questions and say stuff, but she never gives me anything to go on (totally different in person) If I joke, I might get a haha... or something. She'll sometimes drop some kinda negative flirtatious comment at me (like, ohh you suck, or something like that) idk.

So I'd assume low interest, but.. she keeps texting.. she always replies. Its like WTF? She always wants to hang out (even when I cant) etc.. I see her maybe twice a week.

She ALWAYS texts me first, unless I have something important to say. In fact, I think it bothers her that she always texts me first. I leave it all up to her though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Yo_Yo

New Member
Joined
Dec 6, 2010
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Well, shes totally cool in person. And its not always that bad.

I guess.. I'll just play it by ear, and just not text her when I feel its a dead end conversation.
 
Top