"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yo_Yo

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So my girlfriend texts me all the time. Not usually to say anything important, but just like, hey whats up. Hell sometimes she just says "hey."

I usually just reply, answer her questions flirt a little, but she never really says much, just a couple words.

In person its totally different.

If I ignore her, two hours later I'll get another text. I dont mind it, its just boring.

One time I told her if she didnt have anything important to say dont talk to me at all, cuz it got annoying. (yeah mean I know) she said sorry and that she would do better.

And she did.

But she's still boring at times. I try to ask questions and say stuff, but she never gives me anything to go on (totally different in person) If I joke, I might get a haha... or something. She'll sometimes drop some kinda negative flirtatious comment at me (like, ohh you suck, or something like that) idk.

So I'd assume low interest, but.. she keeps texting.. she always replies. Its like WTF? She always wants to hang out (even when I cant) etc.. I see her maybe twice a week.

She ALWAYS texts me first, unless I have something important to say. In fact, I think it bothers her that she always texts me first. I leave it all up to her though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yo_Yo

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Well, shes totally cool in person. And its not always that bad.

I guess.. I'll just play it by ear, and just not text her when I feel its a dead end conversation.
 
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