Some advice,please

[juandirection]

So there's this girl that I've been connecting with these past weeks. We already had our second date. Was planning to set a third date but now it seems like she's not interested. I've been contacting her but she's not answering. I don't like to contact her too often because i think that's a "clingy" move.... What should i do?

 

[GS750]

Depends on how many times you've contacted her without her answering. If you've tried 2-3 times recently without a response, maybe wait a week or so and leave a voicemail. After that, drop it and lose the number.

 

[juandirection]

Is that the don juan way? I feel like a chump...

 

[Fireballs]

I agree with the above posters about leaving a voicemail. Just a few tips on it though:

Smile - it will come through in your voice.
Keep it short, don't ramble on.
Bait her - Say something to make her want to call you back ASAP.
e.g. ''Hey! So this is really funny but you kinda remind me of...'' *click*

Good luck.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

None of the above advice matters. You know why? Because she's not interested.

You could call her and leave a voice message
You could wait a week
You could send a carrier pigeon to send her a written message

Something happened after the 2nd date that made her either lose interest or confirm the low interest she already had in you.

You should appreciate her direct way and mentally move on from her.

She knows you're interested, she knows you have reached out.

The DJ way is to spin more plates and not worry over a girl, who has low interest in you.











PIMP

 

[stevo]

Do not contact her anymore.

If she wanted to see you she would have returned one of your messages.

I'm guessing you didn't escalate or fcuk this girl hence the drop in interest level, if that's the case, it's expected.

Move on.

Too many fishes to be stuck on one beech.

 

[juandirection]

Appreciate all your advice!