"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some advice,please

juandirection

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So there's this girl that I've been connecting with these past weeks. We already had our second date. Was planning to set a third date but now it seems like she's not interested. I've been contacting her but she's not answering. I don't like to contact her too often because i think that's a "clingy" move.... What should i do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GS750

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Depends on how many times you've contacted her without her answering. If you've tried 2-3 times recently without a response, maybe wait a week or so and leave a voicemail. After that, drop it and lose the number.
 

Fireballs

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I agree with the above posters about leaving a voicemail. Just a few tips on it though:

Smile - it will come through in your voice.
Keep it short, don't ramble on.
Bait her - Say something to make her want to call you back ASAP.
e.g. ''Hey! So this is really funny but you kinda remind me of...'' *click*

Good luck.
 

Pimp-sicle

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None of the above advice matters. You know why? Because she's not interested.

You could call her and leave a voice message
You could wait a week
You could send a carrier pigeon to send her a written message

Something happened after the 2nd date that made her either lose interest or confirm the low interest she already had in you.

You should appreciate her direct way and mentally move on from her.

She knows you're interested, she knows you have reached out.

The DJ way is to spin more plates and not worry over a girl, who has low interest in you.











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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stevo

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Do not contact her anymore.

If she wanted to see you she would have returned one of your messages.

I'm guessing you didn't escalate or fcuk this girl hence the drop in interest level, if that's the case, it's expected.

Move on.

Too many fishes to be stuck on one beech.
 
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