"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some Advice Please

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Hi,

I recently got a date for a dance my college is hosting next weekend... But I know nothing about my date. I met her once or twice at parties before, but they were brief contacts.

What are some good places to take her? How does church on sunday and lunch after sound?

Thanks,

Peter
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you go to a bible college? Why would you take a date to church?

I can just imagine: "Talk dirty to me" = "Quote scripture to me"
 
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What about the Song of Solomon---that's some hot stuff?
 
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gmillar

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Actually the bible does have some nasty sh*t in it, incest and rape and polygamy and yeah...
 
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I don't understand. Are you saying that you need to take her out on a date a couple of times BEFORE the dance?

If so then, NO! Just take her to the dance man. if you hit it off, THEN you can get to know her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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