"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some Advice Please

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sinbad2k

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Hi,

I recently got a date for a dance my college is hosting next weekend... But I know nothing about my date. I met her once or twice at parties before, but they were brief contacts.

What are some good places to take her? How does church on sunday and lunch after sound?

Thanks,

Peter
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you go to a bible college? Why would you take a date to church?

I can just imagine: "Talk dirty to me" = "Quote scripture to me"
 
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What about the Song of Solomon---that's some hot stuff?
 
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gmillar

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Actually the bible does have some nasty sh*t in it, incest and rape and polygamy and yeah...
 
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I don't understand. Are you saying that you need to take her out on a date a couple of times BEFORE the dance?

If so then, NO! Just take her to the dance man. if you hit it off, THEN you can get to know her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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