Some advice for virgins that are porn/masturbation addicts who want to lose it.

[T-Mack]

I know it must be nice to look at naked chicks all the time and jack off, but you have no idea what you are missing out on when you finally start getting the real thing. It’s hard at first to get rid of that crap, but once you get laid you start to realize you never needed any of this crap and it’s a waste of time.

DELETE all of your porn right now and stop masturbating so much! The easiest way to break this habit guys is to go out in the real world and get LAID! It’s that simple.

 

[lordson]

i get laid 1-2 times a week but i still like watching porn

to each his own man,

as long as its not a problem ,then its fine

HOWEVER

if you've NEVER had sex beofe, then watchiing porn is really bad, really really bad. it doesn't help

i stopped for about 3-4 months back when i was a virgin, and then i got laid, so there

 

[HaremMasterThomas]

For many years I was employed on Construction Sites in isolated areas within Australia.

I worked from 6:00Am to 6:00Pm six days a week, for between four and six weeks at a time, with Sunday being my only day off.

I had no other option but to watch pornographic videos and pull my own penis, as there were no hot babes around to fvck.

The upside of this was that as soon as I arrived in the City for either one or two weeks depending on how long it had taken to complete the job, I had between $4000 and $7000 to spend when I was there.

I didn't even have to go into bars and nightclubs to seduce the babes, all I did was book a room in a luxurious $150 a night five star Hotel, get a carton of beer, then phone an Escort Agency who sent me a HB10 call girl, who I fvcked to my hearts desires for twelve hours for $1200.

The rest of the time I spent drinking beer in the bars and nightclubs around the City until I left to go back to the country to work.

I never worried or even tried to pick up any hot babes whilst I was drinking beer in these places, however if the opportunity arose, as it did from time to time I took it and fvcked that hot babe in my Hotel room.

Strangely enough my Bank Account was empty on the day that I left, every cent had been spent, I always had about $200 in my wallet when I left the City, it was the perfect life. :yes:

 

[spax]

^ lol man! Sounds awesome. I hope to do that when I'm older.

 

[Lust]

The easiest way to break this habit guys is to go out in the real world and get LAID! It’s that simple.

Worst advice ever. How do you expect someone who's been a virgin for their entire life to just "get laid"? How is it simple? This has got to be one of the worst posts I've ever read on sosuave.

You don't offer any advice on how to actually achieve getting laid, this post was just you having a rant, telling virgins to delete all their porn and hope they'll magically get laid...

 

[DonJuan11]

Worst advice ever. How do you expect someone who's been a virgin for their entire life to just "get laid"? How is it simple? This has got to be one of the worst posts I've ever read on sosuave.

You don't offer any advice on how to actually achieve getting laid, this post was just you having a rant, telling virgins to delete all their porn and hope they'll magically get laid...

Amen brother.

The logic some people have in this forum is uncanny.

 

[nightcrawler]

I'm a virgin and ejaculate once everyday...some days I go for 3 times.

Is this bad?

 

[LostAndConfused]

Hey virgins, did you know that if you don't look at porn and don't masturbate, you'll get laid?

</sarcasm>

 

[Luke Skywalker]

This is total rubbish. When I was porn-free for six or more months I didn't get laid and I'm also a virgin. Just deleting porn or not masturbating doesn't mean you are going to be successful getting any than not looking at anything, in fact, it means nothing.

One thing I do understand is that you need a realistic experience of sex. Rather than jacking off, I'm investing in a fleshlight to do that job. It's as close you can get to a vagina and you could adapt to a more realistic form of masturbating.

When you look at it, you are avoiding unwanted pregnancies, STD's etc.... for a one time investment, with some lube, you have somewhat of a more realistic experience than just relying on your hands for a quick release.

I'm waiting for FED-EX to call me to let me know when to pick up my order.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I like watching porn flicks for my new positions.

 

[jdawgmcb]

I disagree.

How can one love a woman if they can't love themselves?

 

[snowdog]

Well, fact is that if you don't jack it every day anymore you'll be a lot more relaxed and more agressive around woman. You really WANT chicks then. You know that urge that really makes you wanna jerk off? Well that same feeling you'll have around chicks more, making it more natural and easier to approach them.

 

[jdawgmcb]

Has anyone here ever read Sperm Wars? Evolutionarily speaking - masturbation is actually a very important part of our sexual routine as men.

Background info: There are 3 types of sperm in ejaculate. Egg getters- athletic, sleek sperm whose sole mission is to find the egg. Killers- find sperm from other males (sperm lives anywhere from 5 to 7 days inside females after it is deposited) and kills them via chemicals or a projectile spear. Blockers- older sperm with coiled tails or oblong heads that block other male sperm from reaching the egg by blocking the routes.

Single men tend to masturbate or get the urge to masturbate everyday (24 hrs). Why? Because it ensures their inseminate will be more loaded with the 2 offensive sperm in ejaculate (egg getters and killers). There is no need for a man without a regular partner to want to inseminate blockers, since he is trying to impregnate a brand new female.

Men with regular partners will want to ensure they are getting new 'recruits' every 2 days, because this will supply their partners with a sufficient amount of blockers, egg getters, and killers. If you want more information read the book, it is really interesting and the scenes are great!

Clearly these mechanisms do not promote or demote masturbation logically, but from our sole mission as an evolutionary being -- to survive and replicate -- there is a reason why men are programmed to masturbate. In fact, there is even a reason as to why it is seen as an embarrassment in society. All this and more in that book, it's a good read if you are having issues with playing with your one eyed trouser monster.

you have a link to this?

 

[El Don]

Don't mean to get off the topic of mastrubation but I am a virgin and looking to lose it. Pretty sad its taking me this long but I think I am close. This might sound like a stupid question and I know people say its different but what exactly about sex in porn is different from actual sex? obviously you are physically with someone else and you're not just by yourself but positions or methods wise what is so different and what is the same? I'm sure it lasts way longer then in porn but I am sure theres more than those guys that just pump away like that right? lol sorry I know it is dumb

 

[The Kidd]

Hey virgins, did you know that if you don't look at porn and don't masturbate, you'll get laid?

</sarcasm>

don't be ignorant. deleteing your porn might not get you laid, but it definitely puts you a few steps in the right direction.

 

[The Kidd]

jdawg - Sperm Wars is a book, so I doubt you'll be able to find a link to the whole thing. I found it on amazon here for you, but you can probably save a lot of money by just going to the local library - I bet they have it somewhere.

http://www.amazon.com/Sperm-Wars-In...bs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1201062928&sr=8-1



Your body can tell the difference between your hand and an actual vagina for starters. I don't know the science behind it, but since reading Sperm Wars, I've come to realize the human body is a freakishly advanced piece of hardware. Consider this - your body knows just how much sperm to inseminate into your partner every time you have sex with her. The term they use is 'topping off', basically you will ejaculate only the needed amount of semen to be most effective. If you haven't had sex with a girl for a week you'll likely blow a full load of around 600 million sperm (more or less). If you just got done having sex 30 minutes ago you will only blow 50 million.

Another thing to consider, which doesn't come from the book just my experience, we as males know how to turn ourselves on. We know what would feel good, etc.. When you're with a female she may make sudden moves, get you in uncomfortable positions, and a whole host of other things that may prolong your ejaculation. On the other hand, the first time your penis encounters a real vagina - it will probably be only a matter of minutes. Further, you'll be involved emotionally, you'll feel her warmth, she'll be moaning, etc... all these things will drive you to the edge. The main point here is that there are tons of differences. However, it is impossible to actually set out to list these discrepancies and on top of it all describing them is nowhere near as fun as experiencing them. So good luck to you and have fun!

i agree that the body can tell the difference. after you masturbate you get that feeling of guilt, sometimes you regret it and eventually sink into depression.

if you manage to bone a hot girl you'll feel more confident and also happier. people always look at the physical downfalls of masturbation and say that its effects are not so bad, but the real damage is mental

 

[daygameguy]

Well, I've noticed, if you jack off right before you go out sarging.. it can reduce your tension levels/approach anxiety when you spot an HB.

 

[DJVladdy]

dont ask me how i remember this...
but in summer it was a thursday i think, and i wacked off 3 times, nothin unusual for a young dude lol... i was like hmm sosuave says it decreases testosterone, tonight will suck in the club!

But no, i actually had alot of fun, must have danced/grind with like 10 girls, a couple of whom got really freaky lol, and wanted me to touch them on the pvssy. And my boy aftter the club was like yo, if tonight did not give you the confidence to make a move on that cute chemistry TA, then nothing will. LOL

 

[Tear Gas]

i somewhat agree that getting rid of your porn stash will give you taht extra "push" to go out and talk to girls..sometimes i plan on seducing girls, but i just get a combination of laziness/anxiety. I just think, eh ill just go home and jack off to some hot porn hahaha....but you gotta put yourself out there and go after the girls if you want the real thing

oh yea, when i had a gf, getting laid almost everyday, i would still watch porn i just like watching it..i think im addicted

 

[PrinceBeavis]

One thing I do understand is that you need a realistic experience of sex. Rather than jacking off, I'm investing in a fleshlight to do that job. It's as close you can get to a vagina and you could adapt to a more realistic form of masturbating.



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