"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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solipsism?

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Hello, been readin rollo tomassi..

Can someone explain solipsism in and of itself?

I've read a little about women's solipsism and its essentially to my understanding the world revolving around her interest, something like that.

What is solipsism aside from woman in general?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The classic definition:
Solipsism syndrome refers to a psychological state in which a person feels that reality is not external to their mind. Periods of extended isolation may predispose people to this condition

The it is used in the manosphere is to describe someone that believes everything is about them, specifically that a woman believes that everything is relative to her, it’s narcissism and egocentrism.

example: you talk to a woman in general terms about another woman’s behavior - she will almost in all cases start defending the other woman’s stance on an issue - this signals that she takes offense for the female collective.
 

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Solipsism can also be extended to the metaphysical. Many believe that nothing exists outside of your own mind. They say that everyone else is an extension of your own subconscious. A dream is a good example of this. When you dream the characters in the dream are really just all you. They may seem like independent entities but they are not.

In summary solipsism asserts that you can never really verify if someone else really exists. You really don't know if I Pandora has real existence outside of scottyAmericano's mind. You could be dreaming me up. Freaky thought right?
 

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In its purest form it’s an extension of nihilism…
 

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Many women have days where they think their entire life is a movie and they're the star. That should say it all.

They think everyone around them (especially lower SMV men) are literally NPCs.

Most women do not have true empathy. Solipcism is the idea that your mind is the only conscious mind and everyone else is a philosophical zombie. Women aren't thinking that consciously, but instead they simply do not regard others to be conscious entities with their own unique thoughts, emotions, and experiences.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Solipsism, hypergamy, etc., etc., some of this stuff just gives men reasons to continue to dance on their d*ck and make excuses for themselves rather than really going to work to change their situation.

"She has no interest in me, must be solipsism." No, you just have no game or charisma--and you're out of shape.

"She dumped me, must be hypergamy so there's nothing I can do about it." No, you became a p*ssy and she dumped your ass for someone more masculine.

We don't need to enhance our vocabulary just to cover for our shortcomings. Sucks, and I've been there. The problem is changing your behavior and habits, especially with women, takes real WORK and that's what people don't want to hear, or do.
 

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They at the center of the universe...everything starts from "their" point of origin.

Their reality is based upon their own perceptions.
"I think, there for it is"

Ex: women drivers they have a hard time imaginatinating their is a reality outside of them in their car.
 
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