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Soft eraction

Dexter18

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Ok. Now I'm 18 years old. I have not had much expierience with girls. I have fingered a girl once, but that is it.

Some 4 months ago I was at a party, and I was drunk. Got a girl to come to me to other room, and then I had really soft eraction. I figured, that happened, because I was really drunk.

Ok, but there is just WTF!!! I went on with this chick on a date. We just walked around. We just walked around. We were walking like 4 hours, and allmost all of this time, I had an eraction. Wen we got back to my place, we watched a movie, while hugging and stroking each chatter. Ok movie ended. We start to make out, I undress her. I am hard. I stand up to take a condom, put it on, and my eraction starts to get softer. So soft a cant get it in. Ok I remove condom. Ask her to jerk me off a little. Ok I get stiff, put on a condom, and again this!! It starts to get soft. I give up. Take condom off, and atleast try to get her off with my fingers. Again I get hard, now I dont put on the condom, just went in her without one, and everything went grate. No softness (came fast doagh, I think because of long foreplay).

Ok. We go to sleep, and after 4 hours I wake her up for a round two. I got the moerning wood, so I figured, it will be ok. Again, I get her heated. I got the eraction. Put on a condom, and again its get kind of soft. Cant get it in.

The condoms had the antiseptic (cooling) so there is not pre-ejaculation doagh, but DAM, I am so frustrated. I remember, when I jerked off when I was 14, I had really hard erections. I jerked off allmost all day till I was 17. Now I cut back to that (mabey jerk off once a week/2 weeks). But now when I do it, I get hard, but cant hold really hard erection for a long time. I get that 50/50 eraction when I ***.

My question is - WHAT THE HELL??? I'm 18 years old. I should be on the peak of my libido, but dam. How do I treat this?
 

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goundra

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commit suicide. you are fvcked. :) try FEMALE condoms? dunno anything about em, myself, but I do know that they exist. Probably have to FIT her, tho. I hate the male ones, have almost never used them,. but I've been damned careful whom I fvcked, with a couple of rare exceptions, way back in the 70's.
 

foreverAFC

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you're just used to jerking off, you gotta get more comfortable with banging
 

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If you have access to a clinic, your doctor can set you up with cialis/viagra if you tell him of your condition.

Just don't overdose on it and you'll be fine.
 
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