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Dexter18

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Ok. Now I'm 18 years old. I have not had much expierience with girls. I have fingered a girl once, but that is it.

Some 4 months ago I was at a party, and I was drunk. Got a girl to come to me to other room, and then I had really soft eraction. I figured, that happened, because I was really drunk.

Ok, but there is just WTF!!! I went on with this chick on a date. We just walked around. We just walked around. We were walking like 4 hours, and allmost all of this time, I had an eraction. Wen we got back to my place, we watched a movie, while hugging and stroking each chatter. Ok movie ended. We start to make out, I undress her. I am hard. I stand up to take a condom, put it on, and my eraction starts to get softer. So soft a cant get it in. Ok I remove condom. Ask her to jerk me off a little. Ok I get stiff, put on a condom, and again this!! It starts to get soft. I give up. Take condom off, and atleast try to get her off with my fingers. Again I get hard, now I dont put on the condom, just went in her without one, and everything went grate. No softness (came fast doagh, I think because of long foreplay).

Ok. We go to sleep, and after 4 hours I wake her up for a round two. I got the moerning wood, so I figured, it will be ok. Again, I get her heated. I got the eraction. Put on a condom, and again its get kind of soft. Cant get it in.

The condoms had the antiseptic (cooling) so there is not pre-ejaculation doagh, but DAM, I am so frustrated. I remember, when I jerked off when I was 14, I had really hard erections. I jerked off allmost all day till I was 17. Now I cut back to that (mabey jerk off once a week/2 weeks). But now when I do it, I get hard, but cant hold really hard erection for a long time. I get that 50/50 eraction when I ***.

My question is - WHAT THE HELL??? I'm 18 years old. I should be on the peak of my libido, but dam. How do I treat this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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commit suicide. you are fvcked. :) try FEMALE condoms? dunno anything about em, myself, but I do know that they exist. Probably have to FIT her, tho. I hate the male ones, have almost never used them,. but I've been damned careful whom I fvcked, with a couple of rare exceptions, way back in the 70's.
 

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you're just used to jerking off, you gotta get more comfortable with banging
 

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If you have access to a clinic, your doctor can set you up with cialis/viagra if you tell him of your condition.

Just don't overdose on it and you'll be fine.
 
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