"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Soft and hard rejection

JohnyTheArrow

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Woman want to open legs for a good seed and keep it closed for bad one.Why she would not want to mate with a good man ? It is against her social programming and makes no sense.If she gives you hoops :

- flaking
- disrespect
- not answering texts
- *****iness
- **** tests
- silent teatment

It is soft rejection.She doesnt feel you.She already rejected you but she needs you for fun or validation.She will play you forever but if dare to come for ***** then hard rejection will come.Women love to reject men and each time she soft reject you it gives her ego boost.She has power over you.

Treat soft rejection as hard rejection.Refuse to play and take power back to your hands.

It will save you time and will save you pain of hard rejection.There is nothing to negotiate, rejection is rejection in any form.You just refuse to see it.Like a mouse who see cheese but not death in the trap.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JohnyTheArrow said:
Woman want to open legs for a good seed and keep it closed for bad one.Why she would not want to mate with a good man ? It is against her social programming and makes no sense.If she gives you hoops :

- flaking
- disrespect
- not answering texts
- *****iness
- **** tests
- silent teatment

It is soft rejection.She doesnt feel you.She already rejected you but she needs you for fun or validation.She will play you forever but if dare to come for ***** then hard rejection will come.Women love to reject men and each time she soft reject you it gives her ego boost.She has power over you.

Treat soft rejection as hard rejection.Refuse to play and take power back to your hands.
It's good in theory, but aren't you getting petty if you totally disconnect with a girl you want to sleep with over missed texts or tests she gives you? Unless you are in a relationship with her, who cares over some missed texts? Your end goal is to sleep with her right? If a hot girl didn't answer some texts and then answered the 3rd or 4th wanting to have sex, wouldn't you be all over it?

If you have no relationship with them, no legal contract with them, and are not paying them money, its all good. Everyone tests you in life everyday, have to roll with the punches.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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I quite like this. It's simple. As has been said many a time, a woman who is interested will go out of her way to see you.

Though a nonchalant attitude to the rejection is key. She might just genuinely have a lot on at a given time. If there's no counter-offer, meeh, their loss.
 
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