"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Soft and hard rejection

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Woman want to open legs for a good seed and keep it closed for bad one.Why she would not want to mate with a good man ? It is against her social programming and makes no sense.If she gives you hoops :

- flaking
- disrespect
- not answering texts
- *****iness
- **** tests
- silent teatment

It is soft rejection.She doesnt feel you.She already rejected you but she needs you for fun or validation.She will play you forever but if dare to come for ***** then hard rejection will come.Women love to reject men and each time she soft reject you it gives her ego boost.She has power over you.

Treat soft rejection as hard rejection.Refuse to play and take power back to your hands.

It will save you time and will save you pain of hard rejection.There is nothing to negotiate, rejection is rejection in any form.You just refuse to see it.Like a mouse who see cheese but not death in the trap.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JohnyTheArrow said:
Woman want to open legs for a good seed and keep it closed for bad one.Why she would not want to mate with a good man ? It is against her social programming and makes no sense.If she gives you hoops :

- flaking
- disrespect
- not answering texts
- *****iness
- **** tests
- silent teatment

It is soft rejection.She doesnt feel you.She already rejected you but she needs you for fun or validation.She will play you forever but if dare to come for ***** then hard rejection will come.Women love to reject men and each time she soft reject you it gives her ego boost.She has power over you.

Treat soft rejection as hard rejection.Refuse to play and take power back to your hands.
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It's good in theory, but aren't you getting petty if you totally disconnect with a girl you want to sleep with over missed texts or tests she gives you? Unless you are in a relationship with her, who cares over some missed texts? Your end goal is to sleep with her right? If a hot girl didn't answer some texts and then answered the 3rd or 4th wanting to have sex, wouldn't you be all over it?

If you have no relationship with them, no legal contract with them, and are not paying them money, its all good. Everyone tests you in life everyday, have to roll with the punches.
 
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I quite like this. It's simple. As has been said many a time, a woman who is interested will go out of her way to see you.

Though a nonchalant attitude to the rejection is key. She might just genuinely have a lot on at a given time. If there's no counter-offer, meeh, their loss.
 
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