"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sofomore's DJ Bootcamp Journal

Sofomore

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Alright guys, I am starting a DJ Bootcamp today. I just moved to San Francisco and am ready to get out and meet new people. I am going to be posting my field notes here, along with random readings, etc. Feel free to join in. I am also starting an eight week gym routine. If I can remain consistent, by Halloween I will be spinning plates and looking huge!

Here is the Bootcamp PDF that I will be following: www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/djbc.pdf

:rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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collalife

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Hey wanna do the boot camp challenge with me. We can mentor each other

read each others progress and share experiences and give comments. MSG

purefilth. I will be starting this tues 9/4/2012.
 

Sofomore

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Yea I'm down. Let's make every Sunday the cutoff for the week. Where in the Bay are you at?
 

Sofomore

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Ok, I just got back from walking around.

Definitely got a lot of smiles and eye contact in but only two Hi's to hot girls.

First one, I was walking towards her, she glanced up at me and I smiled. She smiled back and I said "Hi". She got kind of embarrassed and looked down to the ground and gave a super soft hi back. I couldn't stop grinning after because he reaction was so shy.

Second one was easier. Just a straightforward smile and Hi when we locked eyes.


I definitely need to get out there and find a good street with lots of attractive women. I kind of picked the wrong area because I needed to run some errands but if I spend a couple hours tomorrow (earlier than rush hour) I can definitely get the number higher than friggin 2. I need to get to 50 by next Sunday. With only 2 down I can feel my confidence growing. I cant imagine what it will be like by 50.

A lot of women here just look at their phone or the ground as they walk. I need to find a way to get their attention if I plan on doing real approaches for conversations next week. I'll be back here tomorrow to write again.
 
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