"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sofomore's DJ Bootcamp Journal

Sofomore

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Alright guys, I am starting a DJ Bootcamp today. I just moved to San Francisco and am ready to get out and meet new people. I am going to be posting my field notes here, along with random readings, etc. Feel free to join in. I am also starting an eight week gym routine. If I can remain consistent, by Halloween I will be spinning plates and looking huge!

Here is the Bootcamp PDF that I will be following: www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/djbc.pdf

:rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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collalife

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Hey wanna do the boot camp challenge with me. We can mentor each other

read each others progress and share experiences and give comments. MSG

purefilth. I will be starting this tues 9/4/2012.
 

Sofomore

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Yea I'm down. Let's make every Sunday the cutoff for the week. Where in the Bay are you at?
 

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Ok, I just got back from walking around.

Definitely got a lot of smiles and eye contact in but only two Hi's to hot girls.

First one, I was walking towards her, she glanced up at me and I smiled. She smiled back and I said "Hi". She got kind of embarrassed and looked down to the ground and gave a super soft hi back. I couldn't stop grinning after because he reaction was so shy.

Second one was easier. Just a straightforward smile and Hi when we locked eyes.


I definitely need to get out there and find a good street with lots of attractive women. I kind of picked the wrong area because I needed to run some errands but if I spend a couple hours tomorrow (earlier than rush hour) I can definitely get the number higher than friggin 2. I need to get to 50 by next Sunday. With only 2 down I can feel my confidence growing. I cant imagine what it will be like by 50.

A lot of women here just look at their phone or the ground as they walk. I need to find a way to get their attention if I plan on doing real approaches for conversations next week. I'll be back here tomorrow to write again.
 
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