"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Socializing Question: openers for people you see but don't know

CostaDeSol

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I just started working in a large building as maintenance worker so i get to walk around a lot and visit all the departments. I see a ton of young women who work there, but only in the hallways as we walk by each other.

I know you will say don't fnck at work, but I don't plan to work there for much longer, so i was hoping to get at least one lay from it.


Since i only see the hb's who work there briefly, as we pass each other in hallways etc, i only say "hi" or "good morning".

Do any of you have any tips for what I can say to build a bit of rapport with them?

I've never been good at socializing so i figured at the very least I will get some experience on how to talk to people who you only have a limited amount of time to talk with.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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evan12

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professional women are suck , they think the are on the top of world because they have a decent job .
you can start conversation by asking "where can I find XXX office "
but expect rode answers , so it is better to ask in serious gestures then if the woman was nice then drop some thing more fun like "OMG you gonna make me return to 10th floor again! "
I have decent job and work in a building with a lot of offeces , most women are afraid on their reputation so dont flirt with them infornt of other women you are not in a bar !
they are usually in *****y mode with *****y gestures ,all their body language say "DON'T APPROACH ME "
hope the case not same for you
 

CostaDeSol

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evan12 said:
professional women are suck , they think the are on the top of world because they have a decent job .
you can start conversation by asking "where can I find XXX office "
but expect rode answers , so it is better to ask in serious gestures then if the woman was nice then drop some thing more fun like "OMG you gonna make me return to 10th floor again! "
I have decent job and work in a building with a lot of offeces , most women are afraid on their reputation so dont flirt with them infornt of other women you are not in a bar !
they are usually in *****y mode with *****y gestures ,all their body language say "DON'T APPROACH ME "
hope the case not same for you
thanks for the tips. Many of them are friendly, but I have noticed that quite a few have the "don't talk to me" look.

what makes it hard is that I'm often isolated from them, so on a good day I might have the chance to talk to only one HB that i'm attracted to.

But i do get to talk others who I'm not, so i figured I could chat them up just to practice socializing.
 
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