"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Socializing Question: openers for people you see but don't know

CostaDeSol

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I just started working in a large building as maintenance worker so i get to walk around a lot and visit all the departments. I see a ton of young women who work there, but only in the hallways as we walk by each other.

I know you will say don't fnck at work, but I don't plan to work there for much longer, so i was hoping to get at least one lay from it.


Since i only see the hb's who work there briefly, as we pass each other in hallways etc, i only say "hi" or "good morning".

Do any of you have any tips for what I can say to build a bit of rapport with them?

I've never been good at socializing so i figured at the very least I will get some experience on how to talk to people who you only have a limited amount of time to talk with.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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evan12

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professional women are suck , they think the are on the top of world because they have a decent job .
you can start conversation by asking "where can I find XXX office "
but expect rode answers , so it is better to ask in serious gestures then if the woman was nice then drop some thing more fun like "OMG you gonna make me return to 10th floor again! "
I have decent job and work in a building with a lot of offeces , most women are afraid on their reputation so dont flirt with them infornt of other women you are not in a bar !
they are usually in *****y mode with *****y gestures ,all their body language say "DON'T APPROACH ME "
hope the case not same for you
 

CostaDeSol

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evan12 said:
professional women are suck , they think the are on the top of world because they have a decent job .
you can start conversation by asking "where can I find XXX office "
but expect rode answers , so it is better to ask in serious gestures then if the woman was nice then drop some thing more fun like "OMG you gonna make me return to 10th floor again! "
I have decent job and work in a building with a lot of offeces , most women are afraid on their reputation so dont flirt with them infornt of other women you are not in a bar !
they are usually in *****y mode with *****y gestures ,all their body language say "DON'T APPROACH ME "
hope the case not same for you
thanks for the tips. Many of them are friendly, but I have noticed that quite a few have the "don't talk to me" look.

what makes it hard is that I'm often isolated from them, so on a good day I might have the chance to talk to only one HB that i'm attracted to.

But i do get to talk others who I'm not, so i figured I could chat them up just to practice socializing.
 
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