I know a girl who goes to about 3 parties a month. Im just guessing though. Sometimes there is liquor involved and she is 18, while im 16. She seems to like me (crush). What Im worried though is am I dealing with a slut? I reallly like her but Im not sure if she's the type that will screw around in college. Yes she does drink but she claims a sip.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Socialite or slut?
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I wouldn't say a slut, but I wouldn't go for her either. One, she is older than you by a couple years and is going to collage. If she is going to parties now, I am sure she will go crazy in collage. Think about it, wouldn't you go have a bit of fun or want to once you get to collage?
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First of all we all know she's lying about her alcohol habit being "just a sip".
Second of all if she's a slvt what are you worried about?
Don't get emotionally involved, wrap your rascal and smash the little cvm dumpster for as long as you can before it inevitably ends.
Do this and you come out a winner.
Try to turn this little liar into a girlfriend and watch your heart get broken and end up a loser in this.
She's a party slvt and you are both young.
Live it up and don't believe anything she says and you'll be fine.
Second of all if she's a slvt what are you worried about?
Don't get emotionally involved, wrap your rascal and smash the little cvm dumpster for as long as you can before it inevitably ends.
Do this and you come out a winner.
Try to turn this little liar into a girlfriend and watch your heart get broken and end up a loser in this.
She's a party slvt and you are both young.
Live it up and don't believe anything she says and you'll be fine.
3 parties a month and she drinks? Oh no, a girl who likes to have fun! That doesn't mean she's a slut. If she gets laid by a random guy every time THEN she is a slut.
Just have a bit of fun with her if shes hot. good looking + 2 years = social proof for you.
Just have a bit of fun with her if shes hot. good looking + 2 years = social proof for you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Party girl = talk to her and maybe she'll end as a good ****. Doesn't sound like relationship material
Daddy The Pimp
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SinJester said:
Exactly . Social Proof .
Go for her , if u find out she's slut dump her . Social proof stands
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