I know a girl who goes to about 3 parties a month. Im just guessing though. Sometimes there is liquor involved and she is 18, while im 16. She seems to like me (crush). What Im worried though is am I dealing with a slut? I reallly like her but Im not sure if she's the type that will screw around in college. Yes she does drink but she claims a sip.
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Socialite or slut?
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I wouldn't say a slut, but I wouldn't go for her either. One, she is older than you by a couple years and is going to collage. If she is going to parties now, I am sure she will go crazy in collage. Think about it, wouldn't you go have a bit of fun or want to once you get to collage?
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First of all we all know she's lying about her alcohol habit being "just a sip".
Second of all if she's a slvt what are you worried about?
Don't get emotionally involved, wrap your rascal and smash the little cvm dumpster for as long as you can before it inevitably ends.
Do this and you come out a winner.
Try to turn this little liar into a girlfriend and watch your heart get broken and end up a loser in this.
She's a party slvt and you are both young.
Live it up and don't believe anything she says and you'll be fine.
Second of all if she's a slvt what are you worried about?
Don't get emotionally involved, wrap your rascal and smash the little cvm dumpster for as long as you can before it inevitably ends.
Do this and you come out a winner.
Try to turn this little liar into a girlfriend and watch your heart get broken and end up a loser in this.
She's a party slvt and you are both young.
Live it up and don't believe anything she says and you'll be fine.
3 parties a month and she drinks? Oh no, a girl who likes to have fun! That doesn't mean she's a slut. If she gets laid by a random guy every time THEN she is a slut.
Just have a bit of fun with her if shes hot. good looking + 2 years = social proof for you.
Just have a bit of fun with her if shes hot. good looking + 2 years = social proof for you.
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Party girl = talk to her and maybe she'll end as a good ****. Doesn't sound like relationship material
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SinJester said:
Exactly . Social Proof .
Go for her , if u find out she's slut dump her . Social proof stands
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