"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Socialist countries prefer less masculine men

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

teagan

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2008
Messages
105
Reaction score
2
I was honestly shocked when I read this...just blown away. It's like these women are just looking for other women in countries with a good healthcare system.
 

Guoy Darko

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2006
Messages
297
Reaction score
3
Age
43
speakeasy said:
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB100...0050665030.html?mod=WSJ_LifeStyle_Lifestyle_5

If you have no game or look somewhat feminine, Scandinavia is probably a good place for you.
FYI, Norway, Sweden, Denmark, The Netherlands and Belgium are not socialist countries. Far from it. They have good social security, but they are all capitalist countries.

But this article is very interesting neverteless.

article said:
In another study of 2,100 Air Force veterans, men with testosterone levels one standard deviation above the mean were 43% more likely to get divorced than men with normal levels, 31% more likely to leave home because of marital problems, 38% more likely to cheat on their wives, and 13% more likely to admit that they hit or hurled things at them.
It almost looks like man have very little control over wether they become AFC or cheating macho's. It all seems to depend on the amount of testosterone you have. So using testosterone cream looks like a good answer for guys that consider themselves not macho enough.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top