"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Socialist countries prefer less masculine men

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was honestly shocked when I read this...just blown away. It's like these women are just looking for other women in countries with a good healthcare system.
 

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speakeasy said:
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB100...0050665030.html?mod=WSJ_LifeStyle_Lifestyle_5

If you have no game or look somewhat feminine, Scandinavia is probably a good place for you.
FYI, Norway, Sweden, Denmark, The Netherlands and Belgium are not socialist countries. Far from it. They have good social security, but they are all capitalist countries.

But this article is very interesting neverteless.

article said:
In another study of 2,100 Air Force veterans, men with testosterone levels one standard deviation above the mean were 43% more likely to get divorced than men with normal levels, 31% more likely to leave home because of marital problems, 38% more likely to cheat on their wives, and 13% more likely to admit that they hit or hurled things at them.
It almost looks like man have very little control over wether they become AFC or cheating macho's. It all seems to depend on the amount of testosterone you have. So using testosterone cream looks like a good answer for guys that consider themselves not macho enough.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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