"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DamianOM

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Hey, Im 22 and have social anxiety and have read the DJ bible numerous of times and have seen some very insightful information about it. Heres the thing, im not bad looking and people tell me im very good looking but im not sure what to do with my desperation. Girls are smelling me like bees to honey and would like some advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get out in the field. Practice makes perfect. Talk to as many people as you can. Its like going to work the first day..you are nervous but eventually it becomes a routine and its nothing to do because you have been there done that before. Step up and be a man.
 

DamianOM

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Skel said:
Get out in the field. Practice makes perfect. Talk to as many people as you can. Its like going to work the first day..you are nervous but eventually it becomes a routine and its nothing to do because you have been there done that before. Step up and be a man.
Hey thanks for the advice, I have tried talking to all different kinds of people but I was doing it like some kind of receipe. My psychologist told me my rejection rate would be about 99 percent because of my desire so he said good luck.
 

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I dont mean hit on girls. I mean just get out places and practice talking to people, girls, guys old people young people. Get over your social anxiety first. Perhaps join a club or something or sports, anything to do with people.
 
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