"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey, Im 22 and have social anxiety and have read the DJ bible numerous of times and have seen some very insightful information about it. Heres the thing, im not bad looking and people tell me im very good looking but im not sure what to do with my desperation. Girls are smelling me like bees to honey and would like some advice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get out in the field. Practice makes perfect. Talk to as many people as you can. Its like going to work the first day..you are nervous but eventually it becomes a routine and its nothing to do because you have been there done that before. Step up and be a man.
 
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Skel said:
Get out in the field. Practice makes perfect. Talk to as many people as you can. Its like going to work the first day..you are nervous but eventually it becomes a routine and its nothing to do because you have been there done that before. Step up and be a man.
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Hey thanks for the advice, I have tried talking to all different kinds of people but I was doing it like some kind of receipe. My psychologist told me my rejection rate would be about 99 percent because of my desire so he said good luck.
 
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I dont mean hit on girls. I mean just get out places and practice talking to people, girls, guys old people young people. Get over your social anxiety first. Perhaps join a club or something or sports, anything to do with people.
 
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